Understanding Your Response to a Request for Order (RFO) in Family Law Cases

When you receive a Request for Order (RFO) in a family law case in California, it’s vital to know your options. This is crucial whether you're in San Bernardino County, Riverside County, or nearby cities like Ontario, Rancho Cucamonga, Redlands, or Moreno Valley. Responding correctly can safeguard your rights and ensure your voice is heard in family court.

At Gramling Law Group, we help clients across the Inland Empire with various family law matters, including child custody disputes and spousal support requests. Here’s what you need to know about responding to an RFO in these counties.

What Is a Request for Order (RFO)?

A Request for Order is a legal document petitioning the court for orders in a family law case. It may request temporary or permanent orders for child custody, visitation, child support, spousal support, property control, or even attorney’s fees. In the family law courts of San Bernardino and Riverside Counties, an RFO is essential for resolving disputes or clarifying existing orders.

Importance of Responding to an RFO

Ignoring an RFO is not an option. Failing to respond can lead to the court making decisions without your input. This could adversely affect your parental rights, financial obligations, or property interests. Responding ensures that the court considers your perspective, which is crucial in family law cases.

How to Respond: A Step-by-Step Guide

Here’s how to respond to an RFO effectively in San Bernardino and Riverside Counties:

1. Read the RFO Carefully

   Review the documents thoroughly. They typically include the FL-300 form (the RFO itself) and the other party’s declaration explaining what they want and why. Pay attention to the hearing date, location, and the issues to be decided.

   
   

2. Complete Your Responsive Declaration (FL-320)

   The main form for responding to an RFO is the Responsive Declaration to Request for Order (FL-320). Use this form to state whether you agree or disagree with the requested orders and provide your explanation.

   
   

3. Include Supporting Documents

   Depending on the issues, additional forms may be needed. For example, if the RFO involves finances such as child support, you’ll likely need to include an Income and Expense Declaration (FL-150). Attach relevant evidence, such as pay stubs, childcare receipts, or medical records to strengthen your response.

   
   

4. File Your Response with the Court

   Once your response is complete, file it with the court clerk at the appropriate family law courthouse. In San Bernardino County, this will usually be the San Bernardino Family Law Division. In Riverside County, visit the Riverside Family Law Court. Be aware that filing fees may apply, though fee waivers are available for those who qualify.

   
   

5. Serve the Other Party

   A neutral adult (not you) must serve the other party with a copy of your responsive declaration and any supporting documents. Service must be completed by the deadline listed in the RFO documents—usually at least nine court days before the hearing.

   
   

6. Attend the Hearing

   On the hearing date, appear in person (or remotely, if your courthouse allows virtual hearings) and prepare to present your case. Bring copies of your response and supporting documents.

   
   

Local Considerations for Inland Empire Residents

Family law courts in San Bernardino and Riverside counties handle numerous cases. Here are some local tips to remember:

• Riverside County: The family law courthouse often holds virtual hearings. Check your notice for details about Zoom links or telephone appearances.

• San Bernardino County: Typically requires in-person appearances, though some matters may be handled remotely.

• Nearby Cities: For residents in cities like Chino, Hemet, or Victorville, your filing courthouse depends on your county of residence and existing family law case number.

  
  

Common Mistakes to Avoid

Here are a few pitfalls to steer clear of:

✅ Missing Deadlines

Family law courts are strict about deadlines. Late responses can hinder your ability to present your side. Ensure that you serve and file your response on time.

✅ Incomplete Responses

Leaving out crucial information or failing to respond to each requested order can weaken your case. Fill out each form completely and clearly.

✅ Not Providing Supporting Evidence

Your statements in your Responsive Declaration should be supported by documents whenever possible. This can include text messages, emails, school or medical records, and financial documents.

✅ Failing to Attend the Hearing

Even if you filed and served your response, not appearing at the hearing can result in the court granting orders against you. Make sure you’re present and ready.

Why You Should Consider an Attorney

Family law cases often involve complex financial and emotional issues, especially when children are involved. An experienced family law attorney can assist you in several important ways:

• Draft clear and effective responsive declarations.

• Gather and organize essential supporting documents.

• Identify relevant legal arguments based on California family law.

• Negotiate reasonable outcomes when necessary.

• Represent you in court to safeguard your rights.

  
  

At Gramling Law Group, we focus on family law issues throughout the Inland Empire, including San Bernardino and Riverside Counties. We understand local court rules and judges’ preferences, which can significantly influence the outcome of your case.

Final Thoughts

Responding to a Request for Order in San Bernardino or Riverside County is a crucial step to protect your interests in a family law case. By understanding the process, meeting deadlines, and providing complete and accurate information, you ensure that your side is properly represented.

If you have questions about responding to an RFO or need help preparing your forms, contact Gramling Law Group. We assist clients in Riverside, San Bernardino, Ontario, Rancho Cucamonga, Chino, Redlands, and throughout the Inland Empire. Our goal is to ensure your voice is heard and your rights are protected.

Contact Us for Help

Ready to discuss your family law concerns? Contact us today to schedule a consultation. We’re here to help Inland Empire residents navigate the complex family court system and achieve the best possible outcome for your family.